Wisdom of the ages

When Kevin and I started our relationship, we decided to seek out another more experienced couple to mentor us. I am SO thankful that we have their input into our lives!!! It is so challenging to have their wise advice, to ask them questions, and to have them ask US the tough questions.

Could we survive without the accountability? Maybe.

Would it be a good idea? Nope.

Because of our pride, it's easy to think we've got it figured out, or that we will figure it out on our own. I am so thankful that God has humbled us to ask for accountability! Even as we talked about getting engaged, we discussed it with our mentor couple who told us about their engagement and convictions leading to their decision. I think that God definitely uses other people to speak to us, and I know He is using this couple to speak truth into our relationship, to keep us grounded in His Word, His Truth, His Love.

Thanks for mentors who take the time to speak into my life!

P.S. Another reason why accountability in any area is good was expressed well by my friend Darren (I'm paraphrasing). He said, "I'm not going to be stupid enough to give myself the benefit of the doubt." It's true. Giving myself the benefit of the doubt has led to many a stupid decision on my part, and seeking accountability from other people you respect (who will love you enough to challenge you, even at the risk of you throwing things at them) lessens the probability of a stupid decision occurring. And believe me, any decrease of stupidity is a good decrease! ;)